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Poll, Indian girls and women…….Your opinion on having a Bill on abolishion of 'Parya Dhan' system?
The barrage of feedbacks on the issue of 'Paraya Dhan' and the woman's status in our society (my previous ques) was heartening and thought provoking. Our government has time and again launched schemes to uplift and improve the lot of the girl child and the woman (Ref link http://www.indiastat.com/socialandwelfar… but none of them have actually taken off well. The reason?…………. is very obvious. Responsibility for implementation of these schemes apply to the government or local bodies, … and some NGOs. Not one directly applies to the girl's parents. So, the parents recklessly avail of every accessible benefit due to their girl child, and finally marry them off, with a sigh of relief of having got rid of the 'burden'!.
What I strongly feel is, a parliamentary bill could be passed, abolishing the 'Paraya Dhan' system….. and, a judiciary stroke added, by making its practice, a punishable offence. Such a law would make every parent directly responsible for the welfare and safety of the girl child. The girl child would no longer live with the dread of having to go to an unknown house after being married. It would also put an end to the many atrocities committed against women, like dowry related killings, torture at the hands of the 'In laws', bride burning etc etc.
Ques: Your valuable opinion and suggestions in this regard?
Many child safety programs inadvertently teach kids the opposite of what they want them to learn and then wonder why the kids do what they do. Women, moms, aunts, grandmothers, sisters, girlfriends, listen up! I’m going to share with you the most important child safety tip you will ever learn.
The subconscious mind ignores negative words.
Simple, isn’t it? But oh, what an impact refusing to adjust our language has on our child’s life, every minute of every hour of every day!
Let me explain. We were all kids once, right? Remember when you were running in the house and your mom kept saying, “Don’t run in the house,” and you kept running? She kept saying it and, if you’re like the rest of us, you kept running. Were you disobeying? No. What Mom was telling your subconscious was, “Run in the house.” She didn’t realize her message was not delivered in its entirety.
We learn what to do by being told what to do. We also learn to do what people tell us not to do since the subconscious mind cannot “picture” not doing something. If Mom started out saying, “Please walk in the house,” we would have walked. Our subconscious can picture it and therefore adjusts our behavior to act it out.
Action Steps For Safer Kids
- Think about how many times you tell your child “no” or use the words “not” or “don’t,” “never” or “stop.”
- Write down the most common sentences you use with those words in them.
- Rephrase the sentences now, before you need them, so you’ll be ready with positive verbiage next time.
- Example: switch “Never answer the door when I’m not home,” to “Stay far away from the door if someone knocks when you’re here alone.”
Always tell your child what TO do in a positive manner. It takes practice. Speaking positively works for everyone of every age so practicing on your friends, relatives and coworkers will only improve every communication and relationship in your life.
So, now you know how to teach your kids about safety and the added benefit is that you know the key to getting what you want honestly, responsibly, quickly and peacefully.
Bonus Safety Tip: Reading and listening to information presented in only positive verbiage will help you get in the habit of speaking that way. So I invite you to get instant access to much more of my safety information, which is all presented in a Positive, Practical Prevention format at http://www.PersonalSafetyTrainer.com
You will get access to audios, videos, documents, blog posts, Safety Quick Tips and invites to free tele-web events on Personal Safety!
From Kelly Rudolph – “Your Personal Safety Trainer”
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